She had just been to her regular aesthetician for a quick eye brow shaping when the woman explained to her that it was time for a chin wax. She was horrified.
After our call, I opened the community paper to a lengthy article by a regular humor columnist about midlife facial hair and her disastrous experiences with facial microplaning after her daughter told her that her face was furry like their puppy.
And then there’s Little Red Riding Hood’s “fu manchu” beard, as I call it. Mom’s Alzheimer’s is in full-on fast forward motion (so much so that it’s been hard for me to even think about writing about it lately) and I can hardly bear the frightened look she gives me when I come at her with the scissors to trim her little grouping of silver chin hair. She would be mortified if she realized, but I’m not sure terrified is much better at this point. Trust me, I question this judgement call for reasons I’ll explain later.
At my request, MacGyver installed a lovely 5000- power lighted magnification (I’m exaggerating a bit) cosmetic mirror in my bathroom. And I’m telling you, if I catch my reflection too early in the morning at that strength, I’m convinced Sasquatch is in my bathroom. I’m tempted to rip that puppy back off the wall, but it might hurt MacGyver’s feelings.
This midlife physical change thing baffles me. And to be coincidentally timed right as we lose our near vision … so that we can’t even notice our facial fuzz and fur? Now that’s just cruel.
I’ll add this post to my vanity diaries. I know I’m lucky to even have hair and to be alive to notice.
But I’m even luckier to have close friends who have sworn to me in blood that if I end up not realizing that I have fu manchu facial hair at some point one day, they will chase me down with tweezers in hand, no matter what.
Thanks for posting my picture up there! I swear, facial hair is why I’d never be on Survivor (among a hundred other reasons). I would be the bearded lady after a week!
Love your comment. 🙂 Too funny. Thanks for reading and leaving a comment!
Life is cruel at times.. do we as women revert to being men as we age?…lol
I have made my daughters swear they will pluck that chin hair if they see one when I’m too old to do for myself.. one daughter threatened to leave it just because..;-)
That’s a powerful threat…
I always have my tweezers at the ready. I swear I have more facial hair than my 27 year old son!
I am laughing so hard right now I’m crying. So true my friend!!
Glad you liked…
I’m right there with you – tiny face shaver in hand …
“lady shaver” 🙂
love it, growing old ain’t for sissies!
see above “damn straight” meant for you….
I’m headed to the Venice Beach Freak Show tomorrow. I’ll give your regards to the bearded lady, the two-headed turtle and the sword swallower.